IS LUSTY-FLIRTING GOOD?

Hi,

There was a big realization yesterday I had, so just wanted to pose some points before you. If you had any time chat with a girl in lusty manner, then this is for you.

About it:
Here I am discussing the converstaion between a boy & a girl, where they flirt with each as if they are too close to each other. They like or find no diffuculty in talking on sexual matters. Here I am confining the issue to just voral dicussions, but not phisical activities. We never care the risk, becos hardly any one else will get clues about it.

Good about it:
Its exciting to speak about such non-trivial things with someone whom we know a bit. Both of them know, its not a permanent relation, so nobody is worried about their other attitude and their further future. Just take the pleasure of the moment. But only thing are they are momentory, cant give pleasure for long time. Aftersome time, we dont know, whether they really think of us, or found another one, like us.

Discussion:
If we know someone, like this we dont find them ethically good. If we ourselves are like that, think of our vision, how it will be. Do we treat every one around us, morale? Obviously not? Especially towards our partner? We never know. If they tell about their open culture( reg discussion about lusty things with others) can we accept, atleast I wont.

What we loose:
As far as I feel, we loose our moral ethics.

• We can never say heartly, that what we are doing is right & and assure every one else can do the same.
• We loose the way we look at society and loose trust in others, including life partner.
• To be a role model for others is even a far matter.
• Last but not the least, Sexual matters are sensitive and they will be at their best if we confine ourselves to our life partners alone. Think of the happyness, who are by body, by sole are ours, the only one who cant live with out us. Having them all the day with us, holding each other's hand, thru out life..... how Happy our lives are to have them in life.

Why am I speaking all these:
From last couple of days, I found few new girls, with whom I was ejoying the chat, where obscenity was no blocker for us. But moments came, that I realized how much I ignored my wife and missed her love. So I will never again bring anything that hinders our relation.

Final Question:
Before this true happyness, does the lusty discussions really work? Wont they cease our true happyness.